You’d think a wedding would be all about love and joy, but sometimes, things take a weird turn. For one couple, their big day was marred by a high school friend who showed up drunk and started hitting on other guests. Even worse? He’s married, and his wife stayed home with their kids.

The friend didn’t just stop at flirting. He reportedly asked one guest to join him at his hotel room and sent another a late-night text looking for a hookup. Months later, the newlyweds can’t shake the memory of his disrespectful antics. They’re torn: Should they tell his wife, or stay out of it to avoid blowing up their marriage?

Here’s the thing: This isn’t the first time the friend’s behavior has raised eyebrows. A similar incident happened years ago. But stepping in could mean disrupting a family, especially with kids involved. On the other hand, staying silent might feel like condoning his actions.

So, what should they do? Experts suggest starting with a conversation with the friend himself. If they’re truly close, addressing his behavior directly could be the more natural choice. But if they’re not particularly tight, it might be best to steer clear of meddling in someone else’s marriage.

The takeaway? Relationships are complicated, and while it’s tempting to step in, sometimes it’s better to let people handle their own messes—especially when kids are in the picture.

What would you do in this situation? Let us know in the comments!